It has been a little over 2 weeks since I posted my letter to Victoria’s Secret and what a crazy two weeks it has been! I have never spoken about Victoria’s Secret underwear more in my entire life. :-)
Again, I don’t think I can say it enough, but thank you so much for sharing my letter.
Over these past weeks I have received hundreds of emails, tweets and Facebook messages. Throughout them all there was a common thread- people were telling me “thank you for sharing your voice.”
Many people wrote and stated that they shared my feelings but did not know how to articulate them or even think that they would be heard– to be honest I never thought my voice would be heard either.
I never expected to be on TV stating that women are not sex objects or that Victoria’s Secret (and others) are setting up a standard that is unattainable for young girls.
My friend and ministry colleague, Rev. Traci Siegman, wrote a blog post about my letter and wrote these wonderful and meaningful words
Rev. Dolive exercised his prophetic voice. He spoke his mind and faced culture head on. Christians are called to be prophetic and live counter-culturally. We are called to give voice to those without the power to speak. It is our responsibility as followers of Christ to continue to name the ways in which people are still held captive.
We all have the potential to speak out for what we believe in and for what we want to stand for. As my friend and ministry colleague, Rev. Laura Phillips, told me “speak even if your voice shakes.” While I might be one person I sent a message; I spoke up for my daughter and every other young girl. I wanted to express my feelings about the message of beauty and sexuality that one particular company was sending.
One thing I learned through this process is that your voice matters, your voice can be heard, your voice is important and powerful.
Because of the attention that my letter has received parents now have been given a voice; parents have written me and told me that they are using my letter to start important and meaningful conversations about sexuality, marketing and beauty.
Let’s continue to use our voice to speak up for those who can not, let’s use our voice to bring justice to those who desperately need it, let’s use our voice to proclaim the goodness of God’s grace and wonderment of Christ.
Let’s use our voice not to shame people, but to empower people.
Let’s use our voice…