New Beginnings

Today I begin my first day as the Interim Minister at Bethany Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Houston, Texas.  It is a mixture of excitement and nervousness all mixed together.  I have begun the process of unpacking all of my books and trying to get them in some sort of arrangement on the bookshelves.  I am looking forward to the opportunity that awaits me as I continue to journey with God in ministry.  This summer has not been the easiest but I am confident that good things are still yet to come.

Above is a picture of my office with the bare shelves.

In the mean time I am staying with a member of the church while the search committee is trying to find temporary housing for me (and possibly the rest of the family).  Please pray that the house in Orange will be sold or rented soon.  It has only been one day and I am not sure how many more days we can live as a divided family.

Here’s to the next step of the journey!

 

In Christ,

Rev. Evan

Two Years Since The Passing of #12

Two years ago today, a High School Senior with a bright football career ahead of them died.  His name was Reggie Garrett and he attended West Orange Stark High School in Orange, Texas.  He was #12 and was great quarterback.

After completing a touchdown pass he walked to sidelines and collapsed and subsequently died.  It was a major shock to the community. Still today you can see people with “WOS #12” or “112%” (Reggie’s catchphrase) on their cars. There is a memorial for him at the school and football field.

It it hard to believe that it has been two year ago.

Below is what I wrote for the church I was serving at the time, First Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Orange, Texas.


WOS #12.  It is hard not to have noticed the number 12  and condolences being given around our town this past  week.  The impact that Reggie Garrett has had on the lives of the people of Orange, on West Orange-Stark High School, on the football players he called his friends and to his family, is almost palpable.  This is not limited to our little corner of the world; Reggie’s story made national headlines on the Today Show and ESPN.  Even Cowboys Head Coach, Wade Phillips, sent the school a letter of condolences.  One young man’s tragedy has in a sense, unified the town.  The barriers of school district lines and on the field rivalries seemed to simply vanish over night.  Hundreds of people from all walks of life, race, creeds, color and ethnicities gathered at WOS to honor a life taken from us.  I have been thinking a lot about Reggie and about his family.  I have been reflecting on his life and the impact that he made on so many people.  This situation is not one that comes with an easy answer to the tough and almost natural question of “why?”; “Why did God allow such a bad thing to happen?”  To be honest, there might not be an answer that will satisfy our primal curiosities.  However, in the midst of such sadness and distress, the message of God’s love and provision is evident in the scriptures.  The Revelation of John speaks of a time when pain and hurt are no more, when tears will be wiped away and a new order of things will come into being.  This is the expected hope of Christians; the hope that one day God will right the wrongs and set the world back on a course where the answers to life’s questions are not full of ones that do not hold much merit.  Revelation 21: 1-4 reads: Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth; for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and the sea was no more. And I saw the holy city, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, „See, the home of God is among mortals. He will dwell with them; they will be his peoples, and God himself will be with them; he will wipe every tear from their eyes. Death will be no more; mourning and crying and pain will be no more, for the first things have passed away.‟

May we cling to the hope of this day.  May we remember the life of Reggie Garrett.  May we mourn his passing and look to the future when God’s reign will be over us.

WOS #12.  RIP Reggie Garret.

There Is No Magic Bullet

There is a pill for just about everything under the sun.  If you have high blood pressure, you take this pill; if you have anxiety, you take that pill.  There are even medicines that grow eyelashes longer.  If you have the aliment there more than likely a medical procedure, treatment or pill for it.

The constant search for ease is not just in curing what ails us.  Weight loss pills claim that the fat will “melt away” with no exercise while eating everything from pizza to ice cream.  Home gadgets claim to organize our lives, make it able for us to clean less and have more time for family and friends.  There are thousands of organization and time management apps and programs available for people to use.

People are looking for that one fire way to fix the problem they have; they are looking for the “magic bullet” or the one thing that will solve all of their problems.  Some people look for it in plastic surgery, some people look for it in money and some people look for it illicit drugs.

But just as many people look for the “magic bullet” for their own lives, congregations around the world are seeking that elusive “magic bullet.”   Churches are looking for that one thing that will bring them to their goal, whatever it might be.  For most churches that I have been a part of the one thing they are looking for are ways to get “the young people” to their church.  Their rationale is a good one; they want to ensure that the church that they have worshipped in and loved for so long will remain after they are no longer here on Earth.  Churches have tried all sorts of things to draw in this particular segment of the population.

Well friends, I am sorry to say, there is no magic bullet when it comes to ministry.

There is not special formula or combination of words that will make ministry easier, better, more effective.  You could have the best preacher in the world, the best music and the great facility but if the presence of God is not felt within the walls of the church or from the people attending, you will have a hard time filling that building each week.

For some churches they have found something that works; it might have been a specialized ministry or even a particular program.  The fallacy that many other churches fall into is that one church’s ministry and results can be duplicated at another church.    You have probably seen it before, one church builds a new fellowship hall with gymnasium, and six months later another church in the town is doing the same thing to “keep up with the Jones.”   Why?  Because they believe that is the magic bullet.

Ministry is one of those things that is similar to a lot of other churches but yet distinctly individual.  On one hand all churches believe in God and Jesus as God’s son, but how this is lived out may look completely different.  Catholics believe in the transformation of the bread and wine during Eucharist to flesh and blood, while other Christian denominations believe it more a remembrance act or a memorial.  Is one more correct than the other?  No, rather it is a matter of how ones faith is lived out.

This is the same understanding that must be applied when it comes to ministry.  Every church even within the same denomination or even the same town will have different ministry focuses.  One church might more international mission minded while another congregation might be more focused on the homeless in their town.  Both churches are trying to live out the gospel in their own unique way.

For congregations today, the focus must not be on what another church is doing to bring in people but rather on what God is calling that particular collection of followers of Christ to be and become.  This is no simple task, rather is one that will take serious time and devotion.  However, once the time is invested I believe that God will reveal in time the direction a congregation is to go and do not be surprised of the answers you receive.

Christianity and 9/11: 11 years later

Below is an article I wrote for the Orange County Record. It will be published tomorrow but I thought I would post it today on the anniversary of September 11, 2001.


Yesterday marked the 11th anniversary of the terror attacks that took place across the country on September 11, 2001. On that day nearly 3000 people lost their lives. Every year the country is called to stop and remember those who perished in a senseless act.

Since then the world is a much different place. Wars were fought in remembrance of those who died; soldiers gave their lives defending the freedoms that we have here in this country today. But one of the biggest things that happened because of 9/11 was that Islam was put on the map and under a microscope.

Christians have had a choice to make sense that day: live in fear and hatred of another religion or learn and find way to connect via common ground. Many people, many Christians have made all Muslims the enemy of the United States and even of Christianity itself. This is a tragic outlook for Christians to take; this makes all followers of Christ look bad and it is still happening today.

Since 9/11 a number of anti-Muslim websites, rallies, posts and possibly sermons have taken place. Most of them have been based in the fear, assumptions and thinly veiled truths. The other day I saw a bumper sticker that read “Mohammed is dead, Jesus is Alive!” This got me thinking, would this sticker have ever been produced if 9/11 never happened? Why are some Christians so afraid of this particular religion? Why are debates being held on whether the President of the United States is or is not a Muslim? It is unfortunate that all peaceful Muslims here in this country are lumped into a class of people that advocate to the death of innocent life. Most Christians do not want to lump together with Westboro Baptist. If we do not want to have this done to us, then why are some so quick to do it to others? Where is the grace? Where is the love? Where is the notion that all of humanity is created in the very same image of God that you and I are created in?

Islam has been around for centuries but until 9/11 I really did not know much about the religion. I knew that Islam’s holy book was called the Koran, followers of Islam or Muslims had a very strict prayer life and their prophet was named Mohammed. That was it- like many I was pretty limited on my understanding of this particular religion. Some have still not taken the time to learn more or get to know their fellow Muslim neighbor. Protests and rallies are held across this country to stop the building of mosques. Remember the big uproar that was caused when an Islam Center was going to be built near where the World Trade Centers once stood? People who were against the mosque cited that it was because of Islam that the towers fell. This is a poor analogy. If that is the case then across Europe there should be no new churches because of the atrocities of the Crusades.

When I was in seminary in Kentucky I took a World Religions course. As part of the requirement I had to visit various centers of worship across different religions. Next door to the seminary was an Islamic center. The class was invited to visit the center and witness daily prayer. After the prayer session I was able to speak to the Imam about Islam and the center itself. One of the questions I asked was “Since 9/11 how have you seen a change in the way you are treated here in Kentucky?” The Imam stated that he wished that more people understood that the terrorists did not follow what was written in the Koran and that not all Muslims acted the way they acted. He followed that up and said, “Never before have I ever had to defend my faith.”

This country was founded on the notion of religious liberty and freedom. Christians are called to be the hands and feet of God in the world at all times and to all people even those of other religions.

September 11, 2001 was one of the worst acts of violence ever enacted and we should remember those who lost their lives. But making all of Islam the villain of freedom and Christianity is wrong.

In Christ,

Rev. Evan

August 2012 Top Posts

August was a HUGE month for the blog.  Even though I did not blog that often due to the busyness of my schedule, records were still set!  During the month of August the blog was visited 4354 times!  That is more that the previous 6 months COMBINED (4335)!

A GIGANTIC thank you for reading, supporting and sharing!!!

Here are the top five posts from the month of August

  1. The Problem With The Chick-Fil-A Debate
    • My thoughts about the “Chick-Fil-A Appreciation Day”
  2. Robots, Arrogance and the Gospel
    • This is an oldie but a goodie… people are still receiving robo-calls from Prophet Mannesh and they are googling the number…
  3. When Did We Stop Caring for People?
    • My thoughts on the amount of press “Chick-Fil-A Appreciation Day” received verses the amount of reaction people gave to Sikh temple shooting in Wisconsin.
  4. And You Wonder Why People Aren’t Christians: Part VII
    • A church cancels a wedding due to race
  5. Opening Ceremonies = Acceptance?
    • What can  we learn from the Opening Ceremonies?

Thank you again for supporting me and I hope to post more in the coming future!

In Christ,

Rev. Evan

 

Sermon- Feed. Care. Follow. (Final Sermon at FCC(DOC), Orange, TX)

On August 26, 2012 I gave my final sermon at First Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Orange, Texas.  As of September 1, I will no longer be employed there.

I have enjoyed my time here in Orange and look forward to the next step in my ministry.

Sermon link

In Christ,

 

Rev. Evan

 

Final Words

Below are my parting words to the congregation of First Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Orange, Texas.


On behalf of Miranda, Violet and Reid, I want to thank you, the congregation of First Christian Church (DOC) for the past two years.  While we are leaving during an uncertain time, we are confident that God will lead us in the direction that we are to go next.  We have had our share of ups and downs, but through it all we tried to show the love of God in all things and at all times.  Below is part of what I presented to the Board in my last Board Report.

May God be with you until me meet again.

In Christ,

Rev. Evan Dolive, M.Div.
Associate Minister

I want to leave you these parting words and hopes for the church.  I challenge the church and its members to begin the difficult process of introspection and to start the process of seeing yourself in a different light.  It is easy to be “ho-hum” about our current situation, but this is not the mentality the church needs.  Yes, there are churches that are growing and are bigger than First Christian, but if the mentality is that First Christian is a “gray headed church” then that is how it will stay.

By having conversations, times of prayer and discernment, I believe that God will reveal in what direction the church will need to go and how to change to fully grow into the church God needs it to be.  I know that it will not be easy and tough choices will have to be made, but I believe that the church will be better because of it.

For the past two years I have called First Christian Church (Disciples of Christ), my home and I thank all of the members and staff alike for joining me on this journey.  I pray that God will bless this congregation and I look forward to hearing about what great things this church will do for Kingdom of God.

May the peace of God be with you all, now and forevermore.

When One Door Closes…

I haven’t really mentioned it here or on the various social media outlets but tomorrow will be my last day at my current church in Orange, Texas.  Due to the decline of church attendance and the economy, the church informed me back in May that come September 1 I would no longer be able to be paid.

I have spent the last few months interviewing and traveling trying to find a new placement; it hasn’t been the most pleasant of summers.

I guess it didn’t really hit of the finality of it all until last week when I was writing my second to last sermon.  It wasn’t like I didn’t know that the end was coming, but like most things we dread, we try to put it away from our mind; I think the professionals call it “denial.”

And now on the eve of my last sermon at First Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Orange, Texas I am struck with the notion that it truly is the final one.  I struggled at times to craft the right parting words and realized that no such words exist.  So I composed a hope filled sermon based on the final words and commands of Christ in John.  (I’ll post the sermon audio tomorrow).  Through it all I was reminded that the words that I write do not matter, rather it is the Spirit’s movement in the moment and in the hearer’s life that makes the difference.

It has been a roller coaster of emotions- anger, fear, sadness, grief, etc. and I am not sure what the future will hold.  I am hopeful and I there are good things on the horizon (more of that to come later).

In Christ,

Rev. Evan

Sermon- The “Harsh” Message of Jesus

Today I preached a sermon entitled “The ‘Harsh’ Message of Jesus” based on John 6:56-69 (Common English Bible).

Enjoy!

Sermon Link

In Christ,

Rev. Evan

And You Wonder Why People Aren’t Christians: Part VII

Here we go again… its time for another segment of “And You Wonder Why People Aren’t Christians.”

Our story today comes from the land that put racial tolerance and acceptance on the map, Mississippi. (/sarcasm)

You can read the story here, but in a nutshell the First Baptist Church in Crystal Springs, Mississippi informed an engaged couple that they could no longer get married in the church. Did I mention that the church is predominately white and that the couple was African-American? Did I also mention that they church informed them just a couple of days prior to their actual wedding date?

Church officials were quoted to have said that they  “welcome any race into their congregation.”  Umm… no I do not think you do.

Once again race and Christianity has reared its ugly head.  It is hard to believe that in 21st century race still a factor in whether or not one is seen as a worthy human.  As I have said many times before if Christ did not discriminate in whether or not people were allowed to come and hear the gospel message, then why are some followers of Christ doing this?

Aside from the racial issue that is staring us right in the face, there are some other issues to this story.  First, the church must have granted permission for the couple to have their wedding at the church prior to this event; the couple had sent out the invitations and everything.  I think it would be a bit presumptuous of them to just think that a church they are not a member of would allow them to use the facility without asking.  Next, the minister stated that it was “a small minority” that was against the wedding being held at the church.  A small minority?  Sadly, this small minority must have a lot of power and pull because they basically overruled the church’s previous decision.

This is all to common in churches; many people dislike the notion of centralized power in Washington, D.C. but are powerless to anything about it in their own churches.  The way churches are today, it only takes one wrong move and people split and the money is gone.  I am not saying that the church should have allowed this distorting of the gospel to take place, but the though of ‘making waves’ scares people.

If I were the minister in that congregation I would have still had the wedding at the church no matter what the church’s a small minority believed.  Also, that would have been the last act as a minister in that congregation.  No two week notice, no reception, no farewells, gone.

The gospel can not be trampled like that and expect me to stick around.  There would be no amount of meetings or discernment that I believe would change some people’s minds.  Christ never turned people away and here we are claiming to be his followers and look at what we are doing.

I think another series or title of this post could be “And You Wonder Why The Church Is Shrinking”… case and point… people in Mississippi are still living in a world where their God is a god who discriminates.  If we are all made in the image of God, then why are we trying to make our church look like us?

How can the gospel of love be turned into the gospel of difference is not acceptable?

In Christ,

Rev. Evan