This was placed on my sermon prior to the start of service. Something to think about đ
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This was placed on my sermon prior to the start of service. Something to think about đ
Published via Pressgram
My latest for Sojourners
Being a parent is an awesome task. On one hand you have the responsibility of caring for another human being; on the other, children can push the limits of your sanity, sleep habits, and your willpower while you watch the same TV show for the 14th time in a week. Parenting is not easy. Donât believe me? Google âparenting tipsâ and watch the advice flow in. Most of it is not worth reading, but every now and then you can find a diamond in the rough. Every person who has ever been a parent (and some who have not) will have an opinion on everything from discipline to feeding schedules and car seat options.
One important task that parents have is passing on values and beliefs to the next generation. Since we are Christian, my wife and I are raising our family in the church. Itâs wonderful to see the wheels turning in my daughterâs head as she is learning about the faith that I hold so dear. This past Christmas was especially wonderful because this was the first year that the story of the coming of Christ in the world as a baby in a manger prompted awe and wonder. I have to admit I envy her; she is hearing the stories of God, Jesus, and the disciples for the first time. What I wouldnât give to be able to listen to what goes on in her mind when she hears about angels singing or God loving humanity without conditions.
We donât give children enough credit. They are infinitely smarter than we think. Children figure out things that most adults have trouble comprehending. I truly believe that my daughter came out of the womb knowing how to operate an iPad. She gets that finger swiping and she can navigate the world of apps and photos with more precision and understanding that people 20 times her age.
In the Gospel of Mark, we find these words of Jesus: â I assure you that whoever doesnât welcome Godâs kingdom like a child will never enter it.â (Mark 10:15–Common English Bible). This verse is referenced when someone speaks that followers of Christ should have âfaith like a child.â Generally, this is defined as âsimple faithâ or âfaith without question.â This, however, is a misguided understanding.
My daughter, although she is only 3, understands the notion of the Gospel at basic level. For example, while traversing the aisles of a grocery store, my daughter exclaimed the words every parent has heard: âDaddy I want one of those.â I looked in the direction she was pointing thinking I was going to see a candy display or something with her favorite cartoon character on it. I didnât see any of those things. I asked for her to clarify and she again pointed to a display of brown paper bags that had been filled with canned goods to be purchased for the local homeless shelter. She said, âI want to get one of those bags for the people who canât come to the store to buy things.â I learned later that my wife the week previously had explained the bags to her. No matter how she learned about the bags, there was no way in the world I was telling her âno.â What kind of message would that send to a child with a budding faith and curiosity about the world around her? I knew in that moment that my 3-year-old daughter was acting on her faith in a way that most adults never get a glimpse of. She didnât ask how the people who needed the food got into the situation they were in and neither would Jesus. She didnât say too many people were receiving handouts and neither would Jesus. She didnât care about who got the bag of food and neither would Jesus. Simply put, if we are called to be followers of Christ, then we should start doing some Christ-like things.
Childrenâs faiths are alive and strong, and the church needs to recognize this instead of repeating corny âchildrenâs sermonsâ that are usually well intentioned but often developmentally inappropriate. The churchâs story is being heard and lived out in front of our eyes through the hands and feet of some of the smallest members of the church. Why are we amazed that more children are asking to give money or toys to others instead of receiving for themselves? This is something that should be an extension of our own faith; sometimes it takes the innocence of a child to reorient our thinking about what truly matters.
Having faith like a child does not mean that we take everything at face value, but it does mean that we have the âgo-get-emâ attitude. Childrenâs faiths are constantly being shaped and formed by the people around them and by the answers they get to important questions. If we cannot articulate our faith in a way that a child can understand, then we have a failure in communication.
I want to have a childâs faith; I want the stories of the Bible to be more than just words on a page or the same old story. I want to be emboldened in my faith to step out and be the hands and feet of Christ in the world around me. And if I can do that, I know that I will have a partner in ministry with me.
Letâs not lose that sense of wonder that children possess.
In Christ,
Rev. Evan Dolive
Today Southeast Texas experienced something that most of the country has already had enough of this winter… snow and ice. While by other state’s standards our accumulation is equal to a comfortable day is March, down here it’s a different story. The average low temperature for January is around 40 degrees… last night it dropped into the mid-20s. Â Ice is what people put in their tea.
Southeast Texas + Ice + Snow+ Freezing Temperatures = Kinda Chaotic
In the area of Texas where I live we have lots of bridges and they all iced over for the majority of the day causing delays and cancellations of schools and businesses.
I couldn’t even make it to work because portions of the interstate and bridges were closed.
Below are some pictures of the Winter of 2014, Southeast Texas style.
Stay warm!
In Christ,
Rev. Evan
Below are two sermons I preached on January 12 and 19th. Â Enjoy!
In Christ,
Rev. Evan
“You Are Not Lacking” (January 19, 2014- I Cor. 1:1-9)
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“And The Spirit Descended” (January 12, 2014- Matthew 3:13-17)
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Speech linked from American Rhetoric (All Rights Reserved)
Today’s guest post is from my brother-in-law, Benjamin. Â
A few months ago Ben learned about the modern day slavery that exists not only around the world but in our own back yard. Â He recently learned of Elijah Rising, an organization in Houston with the mission of stopping slavery and educating the populace. Â Did you know that Houston ranks in the top 2 cities in the nation for sex trafficking?
 Below is a short reflection of Benjamin’s experience.
In Christ,
Rev. Evan
One moment you are in the seedy, shady den of the Human Trafficking underworld; the next moment, you find yourself surrounded by strip malls, restaurants and shopping centers. This is the reality of Human Trafficking in Houston, TX.
We met up with our tour leader Cat French, and the rest of our crew around 7 p.m. Elijah Rising started as a once-a-month prayer meeting. Now they do intervention, van tours, music and prayer. The headquarters was once a brothel until Elijah Rising intervened. Now, Elijah Rising is located in the hotbed of human trafficking in Houston.
Beautiful, Spirit-filled music echoed in the Elijah Rising building. I felt the Holy Spirit come over me very quickly and strongly as Cat gave us some introductory information.
The tour weaved in and out of the back alleys of Human Trafficking. We learned that many types of Human Trafficking fronts exist such as, Spas and Cantinas. The spas are what you would imagine. Showers, massages, and back rooms. The Cantinas are set up like bars, where, âJohns (normal consumers),â can purchase sex. They have outhouses where one takes the trafficked human.
The tour was extremely convicting about human trafficking. We learned that human traffickers pray to demons. One theory of why there is such a cluster of human trafficking is that where one person opens a dark, evil portal, others will follow. In other words, the hotbed of human trafficking is an open portal to evil. Call it crazy if you will, but when you experience it, you might agree.
At the end of the tour we saw a building that had been raided and shut down. We saw a painting of a woman in chains surrounded by flags of different countries where they traffic humans. There were white flags representing countries not yet trafficked.
America is not one of these. We have compromised and become a hotbed of human trafficking. America has sadly become a new Babylon. We need to make people aware.
Awareness is the first step.
Contact Elijah Rising at www.elijahrising.com
Benjamin Fort graduated from Stephen F. Austin State University in 2012 with a Bachelors in Studio Art and Mass Communications. He serves on the Praise Band at First Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Longview, TX.
He is a Christian social activist to end human trafficking. Check out his website www.emergingdisciple.com
Sorry to disappoint but this is not a post about Tim Tebow.
A pastor  this past Sunday was in a predicament. He had to lead Sunday services and he beloved San Francisco 49ers were in a playoff game.  So he performed the shortest church service ever– Start to Finish… 1 minute (sermon and communion included).
Check it out
But don’t worry folks… Â according to the New York Daily News, it was a fake but it good for a laugh.
The 53-year-old returned to the sanctuary after his trick play and conducted the standard hour-long service. He said some members offered to give him updates, but the pastor had the game set on his DVR and he watched it in its entirety – including pregame – when he got home. He was rewarded with a 23-10 victory.
On December 29, 2013, I preached at First Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Beaumont, Texas as part of a join service between the two sister congregations.
The sermon is entitled “Rocky Start” based on Matthew 2:13-23.
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In Christ,
Rev. Evan

My new year’s resolution is one that I think many people make: to read more.
I enjoy reading and I even have a Kindle.
I have an ever growing list of books that I want to read, should read and have been recommended to me but by consequence of having a full time job, preaching on Sundays, a wife and two kids, time is scarce.
So this year I am going to make a goal to read 14 books in the year 2014. Â I know to some avid readers out there 14 is the standard quota for a week but I am taking baby steps here.
I hope to write reviews on the books I read during this challenge and you never know maybe I will surpass my goal of 14.
If you have any recommendations for me feel free to comment below!
In Christ,
Rev. Evan
https://twitter.com/jetpack/status/420249744414224384My latest for Sojourners. If I missed something be sure to comment below; I might make another list in the future!
With 2013 gone, many people will be contemplating how 2014 will be different than the year gone by.   Some people want to lose weight, read more, travel the world or stop biting their nails.  New Year’s resolutions are supposed to give us tangible goals to better ourselves for the  year to come.
Resolutions however are not just for people, I believe that there are 14 things that the church needs to do in 2014, if the church is to thrive, grow and be relevant in the 21st century.
Review what happened in 2013: Â What worked? Â What didn’t? Where did we spend our money? How did we touch people’s lives? Â What one word would describe 2013? Take some time and objectively look at what transpired in 2013.
Honestly answer the question “Why in the world would anyone want to come to this church (or faith community)?”: I believe that this is the biggest question that every church must ask themselves. Â How one answers this question affects the ministry, outlook and mission of the church. Â If you answer this question honestly, the answer might surprise you and scare you all at the same time.
Try Something New: One of the complaints of the church is that it is stuck in the 1950s. Â Let’s expand our horizons and try something new. Â In every church I have ever worked or preached in I have heard “we like things the way they are.” Â I’m not calling for the church to re-orient the sanctuary but try something, anything. Â There are great new modern hymns, new bible translations and worship styles just waiting to be used. Â Give them a try, you might actually like them. Â If God can make all things new, then why not take God up on the offer; you’ll never know what’s out there until you try.
Pass The Torch: The younger generations in many churches are waiting to be able to take over the reigns and serve God, but some people are unwilling to let go. Â 2014 is the time. Â Let’s inject some new life in stale committees/ministry teams/church leadership. Â Hearing how a different generation or segment of the population understands and seeks out the Divine is a wonderful learning experience. Â “Do not let your own preferences and comfort segregate an entire generation from service to the church.”. Â The church can not tell the next generation to “wait their turn” any longer.
Fail (a lot if you have to)– The fear of failure is one of biggest impediments to ministry. No one wants to devote time, effort, energy and even money to a project that is going to fail, I completely understand that. However through the act of failure we are able to examine what went well and what didn’t. Failure is a necessity for innovation. Edison failure hundreds of times before he perfected the light bulb. The church is not immune to failure so we should stop acting like it.
Join The 21st Century– In 2000 having a website was a luxury now its a necessity. Â More and more people share, learn, collaborate and access news from pop culture to current world events thanks to the power of the internet. Â The church however has been lagging behind in this category. Â Too often this is delegated to a committee or a person who will update it if/when they have the time. Â One of the biggest turnoffs for many people is a website that hasn’t been updated in six months. There are many different resources to record sermons, worship services, etc. Many of them are free or fairly cost effective. If a website is too daunting of a task or too expensive then maybe look into Facebook and Twitter; they are pretty user friendly and also FREE. (check out http://churchsocmed.blogspot.com for tips on how to use social media effectively in the church). It’s about sharing the gospel of Christ and ministry of the church in a new way.
Stop Competing with Other Churches: Some churches pride themselves on being the biggest gig in town; others are quite content with their smaller congregation. Â However in some communities the sentiment is “we have to be better than that church.” Â When the church starts trying to “one up” their neighboring church in an effort to put more bodies in the pews, we have missed the mark. Â This has to stop. Â When the mentality of a church becomes ‘us vs. them’ we have lost sight of the gospel and have made the church a high school popularity contest.
Collaborate with other churches: One way to combat competition is collaborate with other churches on a common goal. Â It is interesting that so many churches try to do ministry by themselves. Â This leads to frustration and fatigue. Â Collaboration allows congregations to pool their resources (time, money, expertise) and focuses them. In the community where I live several churches got together to give away 40,000 pounds of potatoes to soup kitchens, homeless shelters and people in the community. It was great to see how people were passionate about service in the name of Christ and no one cared if they were Presbyterian, Methodist, Disciples of Christ or Episcopalian. Â They were united under the cause of Christâs love and that was enough.
Review Mission Statement: Many churches have mission statements; they are the words that guide the ministries of that congregation. Â However this one small problem… hardly anyone in the congregation (the pastor included) can recite it. Â A mission statement should be simple enough to remember but still encapsulate the mission of the church, which can be challenging. Â If your church hasn’t even looked at the mission statement in the last decade, it’s time to. Â Every ministry project of a congregation should reflect this statement; it doesn’t have to be verbose, it doesn’t have to be complex but, it does have to be real.
Read More (books, blogs, Bible): Some followers of Christ do not have a regular reading routine. Many people know the stories and know the characters in the Bible, but that is it. Â Some are busy with their jobs, lives, kids, etc. and cannot find the time to fit one more thing in. Â There is a treasure trove of theological thought from christian bloggers/authors/theologians from various walks of life. They bring a new perspective on the world and Christianity. Â They help to form conversations and articulate thoughts in differing ways thus opening the conversation up more. Â Taking time to read the Bible, blogs and books (religious and nonreligious) we can see how the story of God can be told over and over again in many different ways.
Study More: Why are we going to the Bible to only reinforce what we already know? Â Let’s take some time in 2014 to look at the Bible with fresh eyes, listen for the voice of God with open ears, have open, honest, faithful conversations. Â The Bible has been read by billions of people over thousands of years and yet each time we approach the text we find something that we had never noticed before. Â Try different ways of reading the bible like lectio divina or examin prayers. Try a new translation or commentary. Â Be open to what God is speaking to you and your church, it might surprise you (in a good way).
Love More: Sadly the church has received an unfortunate reputation of being cold and unloving. Now hear me out, I’m not saying that all churches are this way but every church can be more loving. Love in my opinion is at the heart of the gospel but if our love is bound by conditions then we are squandering a free gift, the free gift of God’s love given to all. (See I John 4:19) Â Iâm not talking about âlove the sinner, hate the sinâ mentality either; love is extended to all people from God. Â Christâs teaching to love our neighbor as ourselves can not be limited. Love and care for all of humanity is the basis of the ministry of Jesus; letâs open our hearts and our doors and love all people no matter what.
Stop targeting “young people” (especially if you are not going to do what it takes to keep them): First off, young people aren’t lazier than the previous generation and its not the iPhone’s, MTVâs or the Devilâs fault that they aren’t attending church. Â We know the stats and we see it happening in churches across the country, young people are leaving the church and they are leaving it in droves. Â Try as they might some churches are not willing to allow new, fresh, differing ideas, thoughts, theologies and beliefs in their church building. Â There is this unwritten understanding that “we want people to come and experience the Jesus we know even if it doesn’t speak to them.” Â This is another door slammed in the face of the next generation. Â The younger generations do not want to join committees or organizations, they want to join CAUSES. Â This is a huge shift from previous generations but itâs one that the church must recognize. Â As a minister friend once told me “the church has lost its particularity in society.” Â He’s right; why go to church if it means serving on a committee when you can make just as much of difference with CASA or United Way or Habitat for Humanity? Â Churches who have a cause to unite others with ministries they are passionate about will generally have the younger generation more invested.
Promote Justice: Justice comes in many different shapes and sizes and is part of the gospel of Jesus Christ. There are simple steps that churches can do to promote justice in the world. Â One way that I like to promote justice is ensuring that the coffee I drink is from organizations that are Fair Trade Certified. These groups work with co-ops and farmers to make sure that the workers that pick the beans for your morning cup of joe get paid a fair wage; it’s a win-win. You get great coffee (or tea or chocolate) and the workers can provide for their families. Â There are dozens of organizations focusing on the promotion of justice in the world like International Justice Mission and World Vision International to name a few. Â God is calling the church in 2014 to look outside of its walls and extend the healing ministry of Christ to all people, in all places and at all times.
I’m not saying that the congregation you attend neglects these 14 things; some churches do some things well and others do not. Â The church is standing on the corner of the 21st century and the gospel. Â 2014 could be a pivotal year for many congregations around the world. Â I hope these serve as a guide for the next year to come.
Happy New Year!
In Christ,
Rev. Evan